I’ve been seeying the same guy for nearly 3 years now and like others we’ve had our ups and downs but there always seems to be something missing leading my interests else where. i do love him, but recently i met a guy on the chat rooms who i really like and have been texting frequently without the knowledge of my boyfriend.
Me and this guy get on really well and i would like to get to know him better but i’m scared that i might be throwing away something really good with my boyfriend. this guy i’ve been texting is really nice and says he thinks he loves me, do i continue this affair or call it off now before any hearts are broken? help me queenie!! — Kit
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Kit, the really great thing about Web lovers is that they can be anything you want them to be but the down side is that it’s rare they meet your expectations in real face-to-face contact. He could be your dream man or he could be a guy in lock-up with lots of time on his hands or a geezer cheating on his wife.
Is it possible to fall in love with someone without actually meeting and spending time together? No, it isn’t. Would it be right for you to meet this virtual guy while you’re still dating your boyfriend? No, it wouldn’t.
I think you need to make a choice. Stop chatting and texting with the virtual guy and work on your real relationship OR end your real relationship and then get to know your virtual guy more. If you do decide to pursue the Web guy, please be very, very, very careful and cautious! — Queenie