Dear Queenie, I broke up with my live-in boyfriend more then 8 months ago and we haven’t spoken since. Even though he is a cheating jerk, I still miss him and I cry almost everyday. I even dream about him.
I don’t want to love him anymore, I just want to move on with my life. How do I let go of this? How long does it take to forget? Thank you so much. — Julie
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Julie, you’re in control of your life. You currently choose to spend your time thinking about a guy who no longer belongs in your life. As long as you make the choice to dwell on the past, you won’t forget or let go. How long can it take? Depends completely on you. Right now you think a cheating jerk is worth crying over. Tomorrow you might decide he’s not.
As long as you feel and act this way there will be no opportunity for you to meet someone who may be much better suited to you. — Queenie