My boyfriend (28) and I (21) have been together for two and half years. Last week he confessed me that he slept with two women while I was studying abroad for a semester. This happened one year ago, he said he cheated because he was not sure about his feelings towards me back then, but now he says he is very sorry, loves me and wants to be with me forever.
I am very confuse, I really love him, he has always been really nice to me and treat me like a princess. He even went to visit me while I was abroad! But I don?t know if I should forgive him or move on with my life. Three months ago we were in a car accident, my boyfriend said that since the then he realize how much I mean for him. I will really appreciate if you could give me any type of advice. — Lucia
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Lucia, dating is the time to get to know someone and figure out whether they’re the one you want to commit to for the rest of your life. If you love this guy and believe that he truly loves you, put what happened a year ago out of your thoughts. Consider that he needed one last time to find out whether or not you were ‘the one’ and he proved to himself that you were.
If you have doubts you don’t want to rush into marriage with him. Trust is critical to the success of any relationship. Commit to each other by dating no on else and let some time pass to make sure that your love and his love is strong enough to take it to the type of commitment that marriage requires. — Queenie