My question is, I have had this best friend for 12 years, her and I are very close, We would have been together if I hadn’t moved around so much. As the years went on we went our way’s, both of us thinking that we wouldn’t find no one settled for someone else. Her marraige didn’t work, after 5 yrs, and well, knowing that she was now married I settled for a old flame.
We have 2 kids together the wife and I, and my best freind has 5, 2 from someone else, and 3 from her ex. I have been talking to her for hours on the phone daily, helping her threw her hard times, and we seem to be getting closer and closer. However we both agree that no matter what our friendship will remain strong, this we both know.
So to finaly get to the question I wanted to ask: My best friend wants to have a 6th child, and her and I have descused the possiblity of me being the father, she would like that for the fact that I am always there for her, and she can rely on me for help, would it be totaly wrong for us to have a child together, if things were ok with my wife, and we had a total understanding about everything that would go on with the child? — Jake
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Jake, adultery is wrong if you believe in the Ten Commandments. That is what you would be doing if you have sex with your friend while you’re still married to your wife.
Quite frankly, your friend would seem to have produced her quota of kids without adding another one from you. However, this is just my opinion which really won’t stop the two of you from going through with this if you’re determined.
I’d be very curious as to how your wife will accept this plan. If I were her I’d kick you to the curb. But, what the heck, that’s just me. — Queenie