I am not an honest person. I have lied to everyone I come in contact with. I don’t know why I lie, maybe its because I don’t want to look like I’m not a well minded person.
I lied to my current wife about not being divorced when we met. I did get a divorce, but shortly married my current wife.
She’s a good person to be with, but she has some major flaws that I thought I could over-look as time passed on, but I can’t anymore. I tried to help her make corrections to those flaws that she also recognizes as a barrier to our marrage moving forward. She is trying to make some strides, but always falls short of the end goal.
Should I stay and continue to support her even if she doesn’t want to make anymore positive moves?
Your wife’s major flaw, at least as I see it, is that she married you. You’re no prize.
Let’s face it, she’s never going to meet whatever goals you have for her so why not cut her suffering and move on without her so she can meet someone who will accept her as she is.
There are plenty of women for you to con and maybe you’ll find another less unflawed woman to make over. ~ Queenie