How Long Should She Wait?
Within the past year I rekindled a friendship with an ex boyfriend and within a few months we started having sex and spending alot of time together. Its like we were never apart. He has told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship ok in my mind what is two best friends sleeping with each other isn’t that a relationship. Continue reading
Innocent Winking or Something More?
Dear Queenie, I currently live in a situation where someone works with people. But I am a patient here, and no I’m not crazy, there is a man who is supposedly happily married, so he says. But he does’nt act like it, he has continually winked at me, and I have never seen him wink at another woman. Continue reading
Is He Losing Interest?
I have been with this guy for 4yrs recently he disappears for days then he comes home he as been at his moms but he doesn’t even want to help with the bills that have been adding up what shuld i be thinking and what should i do Continue reading
Wants To Win Her Back
dear quennie i am in love with my ex partner who i have 2 children with aged 2 and 3 we were married and split up and we both had trust issues and argued she says that she no longer loves me but i am still madly in love with her and want to be with her and would do anyting to win her back Continue reading
All About What He Wants
Dear Queenie, I am going through a rather heartbreaking moment in time at the moment. My relationship with the father of my children is falling apart. We have seperated for the last 5 months and during that time he has gone from family guy to another person. Continue reading
Too Old For Him?
So, I am happily married. My husband has spent the last week organizing a large conference through work. I just learned that at the banquet last night his co-workers took their spouses. I was not invited. I’m hurt. I am also 9 years older than he is and I’m wondering if he is ashamed of me. That is my hot button. My default. I’m too old for him. I am 54 and he is 45. Am I paranoid? Continue reading
Will An Open Marriage Help?
Dear Queenie, I am married for 7.5 years now and my wife is no longer in love with me. There are a lot of circumstances to where we got here and it is a shared blame, but mostly my fault. I have accepted that and am willing to make up for it with all my heart and fervor. Continue reading
Should Friends Become Lovers?
I have been seeing a guy that ive known for years as a friend, we had both had pretty bad experiences prior to our getting together, we have found that we enjoy spending time together and there is and always has been an attraction between us that we had never acted on untill now. Continue reading
The Dating Test
Queenie, I’m usually not in to these type of things, but I feel I need to get this off my chest and possibly get some advice. I have been dating my Girl friend for a little over a year and a half, I’m 27 and she is soon to be 31. We have had our share of struggles and I’m not a perfect person. We have had many problems with communication mostly my issue. We have worked to hash out much of those problems. Continue reading
Gossip-Based Friends
ok i just noticed that me and my best friend dont have anything in common other than we both gossip about these 2 girls we both hate. but now the girls are leaving us alone and we have nothing to talk about. it feels like we are drifting away and i realy dont want to because i wont see her for a long time after this year. i need HELP!!!!!!! Continue reading
Officemates To Lovers?
I am 27 years old, ive been in a relationships in the past but right im committed to my boyfriend of 8 years who left the country almost two years ago to work. Ive known an officemate and we seemed to like each other though we are both committed in fact her gf and him has been together for 8 years too. Continue reading
Too Soon To Go With Him?
Me and my boyfriend only recently got together, and though all our friends think we’re rushing it, he’s already told me he loves me and i don’t want to lose him, or my friends. I think i love him too, but if i say it i don’t want my friends to think i’m abandoning them and ignoring their opinions. Continue reading
Intimacy Without Honesty
ok my best friend of nine years and i are finally in a relationship. the problem is that now that we are coming to our one year anniversary we are becoming dull-especially in the sex department. i mean he is the most wonderful man but we both rushed the whole him moving in with me thing so what i’m asking is how do i tell him that we need more space to ourselves without sounding like i want to breakup with him? it’s really hard since i’ve seen all his past relationships fail due to them cheating on him. he smothers me and i like that but how do i get some freetime without him? i need HELP! - Jennifer from honolulu Continue reading
What He Really Wants
I have been in a relationship with a business acquantance for 7 months. We speak daily about work and life. Enjoy having lunch with each other, and we make crazy love once a week. I believe we have mutual deep feelings for each other. Problem, I am 9 years older than him. He really wants a family. I am past that, with grown children. Continue reading
Feeling Unconnected
Dear Queenie, I am currently in a long distance relationship. We have known each other as friends/roomates/dated a little for over a 20 year span. He’s 52 and I’m 48. We have decided to get married (neither of us has been married before, I have had two long term relationships, but I don’t think he has) and I am to move to Tampa as soon as I can obtain employment. Continue reading