‘Sex & Intimacy’

Bored On The Orient Express

I am 57 years old, and at this late date in my life I have fallen in love with a woman, 48. She lives close to me, so we bump into each other all the time. I think and dream about her constantly. The problem is I simply cannot fathom her feelings toward me.

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Bird In The Hand

I’m just curious how many couples met their demise by bringing a third or fourth person into the relationship?

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No Girl’s Dream

I?ll go out on a limb here and see what you have to say. Nothing ventured, nothing lost. My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight years. We share many interests, such as camping, scuba diving, traveling, and just being together.

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Too Much Detail

I am recently separated from my husband of 10 years. He left me for a woman he worked with, and she is currently out of the country. They carry on a long-distance romance. In the meantime, I have gone on with my life and am happy with my new independence.

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A Watched Pot

I am in a two year relationship with a loving, tender, and very special man. We moved in together this April and continue to grow as individuals and as a couple. I have never been in a healthier relationship.

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Masturbation/Sexual Disfunction?

I find it interesting that you say men masturbating doesn’t mean anything to them. My new husband seems to prefer it over being with me. He tells me he loves me, and I feel he does. We have a dream relationship except he doesn’t find me arousing the more he gets to know me.

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Normal Behavior

In seven months I am to be married to a man I?ve dated three years. He has had sex with only two girlfriends, one in high school, one in college. He grew up motherless and is a real ?guy?s guy.? He has immersed himself in his career and is very successful. Most of his sexual life has been spent watching soft porn on cable, an occasional x-rated video, or a jaunt to a topless club with a friend.

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Birds And Bees

I need some good biblical answers to a recent sexual problem I have encountered. My husband told me he masturbated in the past, but very infrequently. He says this took place before we were married or even met, but since we have been together, he has not needed to do this unless he was extremely sexually frustrated. He says he is satisfied with our love life.

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Failure To Communicate

I have been seeing someone for seven weeks. I have little experience dating, but I am mature and have lots of common sense for someone almost 25. My boyfriend is 30 and experienced. He also insists on paying for everything.

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A Clean Slate

I am writing this letter to ask one simple question. I have been seeing my girlfriend for nine months, and we are madly in love. We think we are made for each other. She will soon be 19, and I am 24. She has had sexual relationships in the past, and I haven’t. I know that sounds silly in this day and age, but it’s the truth.

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