‘Cheating’

Morally Unfit

I’m 25, married for six months. There are two issues for me: one, I got married for the wrong reasons to the wrong man, and two, I am currently sleeping with my 40-something married coach.

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Guilty Mind

My wife worked for her previous employer for 10 years and became friendly with her male boss. Three years ago when the company was being sold, a series of meetings was held out of town with the merging business. During one of these trips she and her boss were alone for three days.

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Dominoes

I am the father of two children and a husband for 12 years. I love my son and daughter dearly, but my relationship with my wife has been suffering for years. In fact, it has evolved into more of a business relationship than a marriage.

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Death Of A Marriage

On Friday I will be moving out of my large four-bedroom, two-bath, two-car-garage home. I will not see my kids every day, and I believe this is the end of my 12 year marriage. I keep hoping the move will restart our relationship.

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Hitting Bottom

I?m hoping you can help us out. For four years my girlfriend, Wendy, and I have carried on an affair. Yes, she’s married. I know, I know, but hear me out.

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A Covey Of Counselors

Last year I cheated on my girlfriend and she found out. It was awful. We broke up and I undertook therapy, which was a great thing for me to do. She was and continues to be in therapy, and she is a therapist herself.

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A Pickup Line

I just started a wonderful new job. The atmosphere is laid-back, and the people alone make the place fantastic. The best of them all is my boss. She is 29, a month my elder, and very comely in appearance.

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Between A Rock And A Hard Place

I am a 26-year-old married woman, and we are expecting our first child. My husband and I used to go out every weekend and play cards with friends or have a few drinks. I am unable to do this now. Since I became pregnant, I have lost my energy level and been sick a lot.

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Done Bun, Can’t Be Undone

I have been dating this wonderful guy for two months. While he is away on a short trip, I am doggy sitting at his house.

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Olympic Trials

I have been involved in a long-distance relationship with a man for almost two years. We plan a life together, and I will be moving to his location in three months. I recently met his two boys for a few hours.

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A Plausible Defense

I just looked at your website and read “Wanting To Be Caught,” and I truly think that is awful advice! You said and I quote, “You can’t act as if you had no wish to end the marriage when you undertook marriage ending actions.”

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Her Legacy

I am a happily married woman with school-aged children. I am also in love with ‘Steven,’ a man I knew back in college. Though there was undeniable magnetism between us when we met, I was already dating the man I later married. Steven and I had only a couple of nights of dynamic passion.

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On Stand-by

My wife of 35 years has fallen in love again with her old college boyfriend. I am 61, and she is 58. We have three grown children. Her boyfriend is 59, married, with two grown children.

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Playing With Matches

I just found an old boyfriend I dated when I was 14. Tom has been married now for 10 years. Happily, I might add. He told me so. My problem is his wife hates me.

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Misplaced Allegiance

I am male, 30, married for seven years. I have two small children. The past several years of married life have been trying. My wife and I fight a lot, always about money, work, or sex.

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