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‘Cyber Lovers’

Keyloggers record computer keystrokes either through software or hardware. Hardware keyloggers are installed on a computer as an attachment between the computer and the keyboard or they are built into the keyboard itself. When a keylogger is built into a keyboard it is virtually undetectable. Some available hardware keyloggers are KeyGhost, KeySpyer and KeyKatcher, which all work basically the same way.
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He’s a husband who got busted by his wife for going to online porn sites. Now he writes to offer more tips on how to catch a cybercheater. Read more… »

Do you think your husband or wife is cheating? Are you tempted to install a program on their computer to “catch” them? Or have you already installed one of the many spyware or snoopware programs that are available? Read more… »

She met her soon-to-be-husband online in a chat room for divorced singles. Their real life meetings had been intense, and, while the exact details of their upcoming marriage hadn’t been worked out, she knew this was the man who would share her future.
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If you suspect that your husband or wife is a cybercheat there are some ways to search for clues in the computer he or she uses. A couple words of caution: if you don’t know what you’re doing, you could do more harm than good or you could get caught trying to catch your spouse.
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Unwanted email can be extremely hazardous to a marriage on shaky ground. If you’re a wife trying to catch a cheating husband, don’t assume that every email he receives is from someone he actually knows or has been in contact with.
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Do you suspect your husband or wife of cybercheating or of having an Internet addiction? Let’s consider some of the warning signs that your spouse may be a cybercheat or may be on his or her way to being one.
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As if marriage doesn’t have enough built-in hazards, the Internet has added an extremely dangerous threat: cyber cheating.
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Cheating is cheating whether it’s with the person next door, down the street, in the next town, in the next state, or across the world in a chatroom. It’s an act that hurts the person whose trust has been betrayed and ultimately it hurts the person who betrays that trust.
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In the virtual world, assume that at least one person in a chat room or a forum is a predator and act accordingly.
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She said her husband uses online chat rooms to meet women. He says it’s only harmless fun even though he is planning to meet a woman he met online. She says it’s far from being harmless.
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Do you tell total strangers your most intimate secrets and desires? Do you share details about yourself that you wouldn’t even tell your spouse when you know nothing about the person you are telling those details to? Would you have phone sex with someone whose number was carved on the wall of a subway restroom?
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He wants to leave his wife and children for a married woman he’s been having an online affair with. They’ve chatted online and talked on the phone but they’ve never met in real life.
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She was sitting next to me on the plane, flying to meet her online boyfriend. They met online several months before and this would be their second weekend together. She called him her “fiance” but said there would be no wedding even though he had asked her to marry him.
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He’s everything you’ve ever wanted in a man. She’s the perfect woman. Your whole day gets brighter when your cyber soulmate emails or IMs a sweet greeting. Cyber love isn’t impossible but what happens if your cyber soulmate is already married or is a chatroom “player”?
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