‘Taking The Plunge’
Should I Get Married?
Dear Dennis: I have been with person for 5 years. We’re both 25. We’ve been engaged and living together for 2 years. He is very sweet, and kind, and treats me very well. We are very comfortable together, and I love him like a member of my family. He is always there for me when I need it.
The Older Woman
Hey Doc: I’m 21 years old and this girl that I’ve been talking to is turning 28 pretty soon. This girl has been really down on the dumps with personal problems, losing family members, etc. and we’ve been keeping each other “company” if you will.
Take That Risk!
Many men and women aren’t successful in meeting or dating because they aren’t willing to take a risk – the risk to say “hello”, the risk to say “yes”, the risk to ask for a phone number, the risk to set-up a date, the risk to ask for what you want, etc. They want everything in a nice risk-free, safe container. I’m going to give you 10 reasons why you should become a risk taker in a moment.
She Doesn’t Need Another Girlfriend
Dr. Neder, I read your article “What are your goals Girl-Friend or girlfriend?” and it relates to my situation. I met this girl a couple of years ago in an art class, the signals were clear that we were both interested in each other. We went out a few times but I always held back from becoming too intimate or talking about the possibility of being boyfriend/girlfriend because she was leaving the country in a month.