‘Endings’
Trouble in Break-Up City
Dr. Neder, my fianc? decided it was best to end our two year relationship about a month and a half ago. In this time I have realized why she did it and that she meant more to me than I ever knew. I made a lot of mistakes that I didn’t see until now.
Getting the Ex Back
Hey Dennis! I read one of your replies to a question and thought your response was excellent. Could you please could you help with this one?
I’m No Longer His “Dream”
Hi, Dr. Dennis: I am a 34 year old woman who is insanely attracted (you could even say devoted) to a 56 year old man who still makes me melt after almost 4 years of knowing him. We have seen photos of each other, but our only contact has been via e-mail and telephone – never in person.
Breaking Up
Sometimes, things run their course. You may be at fault or not, but when its time to bring your relationship to an end you want to do so cleanly and effectively. Here are some suggestions:
Husband Kicked Out of the House
Dear Dennis: I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now. We have three kids, and have been married for 6 years. Arguments became a daily occurrence a few years ago but never went beyond giving the other the silent treatment, on occasion voices were raised but never in front of the children.
What To Do When You Just Can’t Seem To Let Go
Hi Dr. Neder: I hope you have some good advice besides telling me to get over this woman. I’m doing my best on that (primarily by dating other women), but I really want this woman back if possible.
The Value of Male Friends
Hi Dr. Neder, I have a question that concerns my friends and my ex. I met a nice girl and we hit it off quite well to the point we decided to see each other exclusively. Unfortunately, things didn’t work out and after two months of trying to be boyfriend/girlfriend, we split up and haven’t talked to each other since.
Don’t Mess with a Good Thing
Doc: I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half due mostly to boredom. Then, I missed her and decided to get back together. Now, she says now that she doesn’t love me anymore. From her attitude, it seems to be true; otherwise she is faking very well! I don’t what to do! What can I do to get her back?
Moving On And Knowing That You’ve Moved On
I really am in need of some real help. I am a 19 year old man Last year I moved away from my first love who I dated for a year. I don’t believe that I ever got over her. I went through a great deal of pain and grieved so much but I’m finding it tough to move on. I don’t understand how a person is supposed to love someone and then move on to someone else.
How Do I Make It Through?
Dear Dr. Dennis, I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. The relationship is breaking up. My partner is not satisfied with me, I believe. He has said he wants to see other people and wants to consider other options. But he says he still cares or me and he is confused.