‘Dating Etiquette’

How to NOT Impress Women With Gifts

Hi Doc! This girl I know casually through work invited me to a party. I am going to give her a nice perfume that costs about $100. Is that a good idea? She also said there will be lots of girls there. How do I start a conversation with a girl in a party and get her phone number? This is a big opportunity for me – please help!

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First Date Checklist

First dates sometimes offer a range of emotion from thrilling to terrifying! Here are some tips that will help things go smoothly:

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When To Introduce Her To Your Friends

Hi, I’ve had a couple of dates with a woman who seems to have a lot of potential. What is your rule of thumb for when and how to introduce her to my friends? What sort of situations should I avoid? Thanks.

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Should I Call To Confirm A Date?

Hey Dr. Dennis! I get this a lot – I get a phone number from a girl, call, try and set a date and the chick says something like, “Yeah Thursday sounds good. I may have a girlfriend coming into town so let’s play it by ear. Give me a call Thursday.”

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Getting Past Your Past

Dr. Neder, I came across your articles on the Internet and thought I’d write for some advice. The short story is this: I was sexually abused throughout most of my younger years. Now, as I start to cope with this as a 32 year old man, I have found a 22 year old woman with whom I share many things. She has had questions in the past about many life issues, and has said she has many emotional challenges growing up.

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How To Handle The Check, Et. Al.

Hi there, Dr. Neder! I have two questions:

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