‘Torn Between Two Lovers’

Officemates To Lovers?

I am 27 years old, ive been in a relationships in the past but right im committed to my boyfriend of 8 years who left the country almost two years ago to work. Ive known an officemate and we seemed to like each other though we are both committed in fact her gf and him has been together for 8 years too. Read more… »

Two Wonderful Men To Choose From

Dear Queenie, I am a 25 year old woman, student, and worker. I try to make smart choices, and therefore had waited to have a family.

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A Man From Her Past

Dear Queenie: I have got a whale of a predicament! I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, as well as having him live with me, but a man from my past has entered the picture once again.

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Boyfriend’s Out of Town, New Guy Isn’t

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We broke up two years ago for about 4 months and then got back together. Anyway this summer we ended up getting jobs in different cities that are about an hour away from each other so we only really get to see each other on the weekends.

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Thinking About Another Man

I have been married eight years to my best friend from high school. Four years ago he shocked me by cheating on me with one of his co-workers. It was short lived & he has since moved jobs & has changed for the better. From the moment I found out about it, he has worked to keep our marriage together & I have worked too.

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In Love With Another Man

I am practically married (10 years common-law), and we have two children. I had an affair for three months with someone whom I grew very attached to. We always talked about how we both wished we were single so that we could do whatever we wanted without having to worry about someone seeing us together. But he is living with someone else too. I ended it by saying that I thought we should just be friends,and he agreed with me (due to gossip and suspecting people).

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Leaving For The Wrong Reasons?

I have been married for 9 years and have been extremely unhappy for the last four years of our marriage. Recently I learned that a friend of mine is in love with me and I have feelings for him also. I have told my husband that I am not happy and that I would like to move on with my life but I am feeling torn between what to do.

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His Girlfriend Is Torn Between Two Lovers

I’m a 37 year old male who has been in a committed 3 year relationship. I love the girl very much and had intentions of marriage as did she at one time. Due to a few bumps in the road, ie-she was in a near fatal accident (I helped nurse her back to health over a period of approximately 1 1/2 years and some financial/business difficulties on my part), marriage was pushed to the side.

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Should She Worry About His Ex?

My boyfriend has a very close relationship with his ex-girlfriend. they lived together for 3 yrs. They broke up 8 months before we met (he and i are in a on-again-off-again 5 months now–for a lot of reasons). He and his ex constantly talk on the phone to this very day. I told him that this bothers me. I don’t see why they still have to keep close contact with each other–they have no kids, don’t work together, etc. He even told her that I am jealous of her!

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Cheating on Her Marriage

I have never cheated in my 5 year marriage until now– 3 times and I do have feelings for this other person. What do I do??

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Torn Between Two Lovers

I brook up with my boyfriend of three years because of family issues and the fact that he hurt me. I am now seeing a man who is seven years younger than me. He has a good head on his shoulders and he claims that he is in love with me.

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Married With A Boyfriend

I have been in a marriage for 12 years and we have 2 children. I love him dearly but I met someone else a year ago. He happens to be a friend of the family. This guy treats me so good and my kids too.

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Follow Her Heart?

Dearest Queenie, I waited for this guy “K” for a year and 9 months while he was doing his time in jail. He loves me and I knew he was the only guy I had so much feeling for, maybe it was my insecurities or maybe I was listening to my mother too much. She told me that it was best if I be with the one that loves me rather than the one I loved. That way I wouldn’t be mistreated.

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In Love With Two Men

Dear Queenie I am in love with two men. Is that possible? I love my daughters father who has been locked up time and time again but this last time he has been gone for six months and I cheated.

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Put Them Together And They’d Be The Perfect Man

Dear Queenie – I’m in a nerve-wracking situation. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend of nearly 3 years proposed to me with an over-the top engagement ring. It’s gorgeous, but I find it slightly irresponsible because he/we have no sort of savings.

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