Will An Open Marriage Help?
Dear Queenie, I am married for 7.5 years now and my wife is no longer in love with me. There are a lot of circumstances to where we got here and it is a shared blame, but mostly my fault. I have accepted that and am willing to make up for it with all my heart and fervor. Continue reading
The Dating Test
Queenie, I’m usually not in to these type of things, but I feel I need to get this off my chest and possibly get some advice. I have been dating my Girl friend for a little over a year and a half, I’m 27 and she is soon to be 31. We have had our share of struggles and I’m not a perfect person. We have had many problems with communication mostly my issue. We have worked to hash out much of those problems. Continue reading
Gossip-Based Friends
ok i just noticed that me and my best friend dont have anything in common other than we both gossip about these 2 girls we both hate. but now the girls are leaving us alone and we have nothing to talk about. it feels like we are drifting away and i realy dont want to because i wont see her for a long time after this year. i need HELP!!!!!!! Continue reading
Officemates To Lovers?
I am 27 years old, ive been in a relationships in the past but right im committed to my boyfriend of 8 years who left the country almost two years ago to work. Ive known an officemate and we seemed to like each other though we are both committed in fact her gf and him has been together for 8 years too. Continue reading
Too Soon To Go With Him?
Me and my boyfriend only recently got together, and though all our friends think we’re rushing it, he’s already told me he loves me and i don’t want to lose him, or my friends. I think i love him too, but if i say it i don’t want my friends to think i’m abandoning them and ignoring their opinions. Continue reading
Intimacy Without Honesty
ok my best friend of nine years and i are finally in a relationship. the problem is that now that we are coming to our one year anniversary we are becoming dull-especially in the sex department. i mean he is the most wonderful man but we both rushed the whole him moving in with me thing so what i’m asking is how do i tell him that we need more space to ourselves without sounding like i want to breakup with him? it’s really hard since i’ve seen all his past relationships fail due to them cheating on him. he smothers me and i like that but how do i get some freetime without him? i need HELP! - Jennifer from honolulu Continue reading
What He Really Wants
I have been in a relationship with a business acquantance for 7 months. We speak daily about work and life. Enjoy having lunch with each other, and we make crazy love once a week. I believe we have mutual deep feelings for each other. Problem, I am 9 years older than him. He really wants a family. I am past that, with grown children. Continue reading
Feeling Unconnected
Dear Queenie, I am currently in a long distance relationship. We have known each other as friends/roomates/dated a little for over a 20 year span. He’s 52 and I’m 48. We have decided to get married (neither of us has been married before, I have had two long term relationships, but I don’t think he has) and I am to move to Tampa as soon as I can obtain employment. Continue reading
Two Wonderful Men To Choose From
Dear Queenie, I am a 25 year old woman, student, and worker. I try to make smart choices, and therefore had waited to have a family. I met my boyfriend Pit 7 years ago. During all this time we broke up several times, because we are very different and we can’t agree or understand each other most of the time (among other problems). He is 9 years older than me. So age is part of the issue, or at least I considered being. He is the serious type of guy, responsible, and respectful. Continue reading
A Man From Her Past
Dear Queenie: I have got a whale of a predicament! I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, as well as having him live with me, but a man from my past has entered the picture once again. My mom introduced me to my boyfriend and we were inseparable. However, for the last 3 months, our relationship has been increasingly tense and my sexual drive towards him is decreasing into nonexistance. Continue reading
She’s In His Will?
My high school sweetheart and I starting dating again about 3 years ago–both divorced. We see each other almost every day: dinner, movies, trips, events etc. I love her completely and date no others. Our sex life is awesome. The past year and half or so, an old boy friend she dated about 10 years ago–after her divorce–started calling her. Continue reading
Eight Months Pregnant
I’m eight months pregnant and on bed rest due to signs of preterm labor. I can’t work or venture to the grocery store. My boyfriend told me that he can’t stand me and I have pretty solid proof that he’s been sleeping with someone else. We don’t live together, but I’m thinking of moving to get away from the whole situation. I like my doctor here, and when I’m back from maternity related leave I have a job that I like as well. Continue reading
Back From Paradise
I spent the past two months cruising and visiting some of the most beautiful places in the world. Of course a lot of the time I spent playing cards with some of the old ladies I met on the ship, and even more time I spent feeding nickels into slot machines so I could get free pina coladas. Continue reading
Doesn’t Want To Be A Fool Again
Dear Queenie, my bf of 7yrs. works in banking. he has been fired several times or just gets moved around to different banks. every time he goes to a new branch or bank he get infatuated with a co worker. I have only known him 7 years but before that I think it was the same when he was married. Most of the ladies I think are flattered but not really interested in him as he is not very good looking. one lady a few years ago lead him on I think to make her other boyfriend jealous or for gifts that he would lavish on her. as a rule he is not very gorgeous. Continue reading
Worried About Her BFF’s BF
Dear Queenie, my best friend of 14 years has been in a long-distance relationship for more than a year now. She moved away for college about two years back and I’ve only recently met her boyfriend. For some reason I’m not getting good vibes from him and his behaviour seems too obsessive. He doesn?t let her be friends with guys or even go to parties if he is not around. If for some reason she is unable to pick his calls he calls me asking where she is. My friend seems different now from when we started college. She used to laugh and go out a lot but now she just sits at home and just seems sad in general. Continue reading