‘Can This Relationship Work?’
How Long Should She Wait?
Within the past year I rekindled a friendship with an ex boyfriend and within a few months we started having sex and spending alot of time together. Its like we were never apart. He has told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship ok in my mind what is two best friends sleeping with each other isn’t that a relationship. Read more… »
Is He Losing Interest?
I have been with this guy for 4yrs recently he disappears for days then he comes home he as been at his moms but he doesn’t even want to help with the bills that have been adding up what shuld i be thinking and what should i do Read more… »
The Dating Test
Queenie, I’m usually not in to these type of things, but I feel I need to get this off my chest and possibly get some advice. I have been dating my Girl friend for a little over a year and a half, I’m 27 and she is soon to be 31. We have had our share of struggles and I’m not a perfect person. We have had many problems with communication mostly my issue. We have worked to hash out much of those problems. Read more… »
Feeling Unconnected
Dear Queenie, I am currently in a long distance relationship. We have known each other as friends/roomates/dated a little for over a 20 year span. He’s 52 and I’m 48. We have decided to get married (neither of us has been married before, I have had two long term relationships, but I don’t think he has) and I am to move to Tampa as soon as I can obtain employment. Read more… »
Sex Without Emotional Intimacy
Dear Queenie: I’ve had a friend/intimate relationship with a man twelve years older than I for two years. We have both been hurt by two divorces each. We have a terrific intimate relationship but not intimate emotionally. We are both scared but I need more and he told me he can not give more.
Jailhouse Lover
I have a question about my boyfriend who is in jail and although I’ve seen your archives, I can’t exactly find one to fit this question particularly. My boyfriend and I didn’t actually start talking until he had been in jail for a while, but we have been friends for years.
All Action, No Talk
My boyfriend refuses to tell me that he loves me. He hasnt said it in almost 2 years and it really bothers me. I know he loves me but he just wont say it. He used to but after a few fights early in the relationship, he told me he does not love me.
She Chose The Wrong Man
My story is long and my question complex due to the past few years. I met two men around the same time frame and chose the one who seemed to be the less of a threat to my heart. I Married him but always harbored feelings for the other who made me feel “scared” you know that feeling you get when you are up high and you look below? I Married the one who made me feel “safe”. I realize now why I thought I chose him and cut all ties with the other man (the unsaf one).
He Wants Her To Want Him
Hello, I need help! I’m madly in love with my girlfriend but she’s saying for right now we’re just friends. We’ve been together for one year but have been friends for about three. We were living together during this past year and were engaged. Now, after a not so pretty disagreement, we are living apart from each other. We still talk every day, still see each other almost every day and we even have sex. I do just about anything she asks of me and have apologized more than once.
A Friendship That’s Gone Too Far?
This question is not concerning love, but about the break down of a best friendship. I have known “Lilian” for about 3 1/2 years. I have been through alot w/her. About 2 yrs ago, she was having problems w/ her sister so, I invited her to come live w/me. Throughout this situation, she has hidden the bills from me, constantly being short on money, made bad choices, making plans, then somehow not coming through, in short, she has been a mental drain on me.
Better Friends Than Spouses
What are we? My “soon to be ex-husband” and I are still in love, but it is impossible for us to be together. His mom hates me, my mom hates him, and we don’t live together well. But we are really friendly to each other. We tell each other just about everything. yet there is the “chemistry or lust” betweet us. When we get together to hand out, eventually we head towards the bedroom. I don’t find this a problem, but I am feeling confused.
Should She Spend So Much Time With Her Ex?
Dear Queen, I have been in a wonderful relationship now for 8 months, everything is going great except for one problem i seem to have. i hope that you will be able to give me some information i need to hear.
Too Friendly With Their Exes?
My boyfriend and I have a great relationship except for one problem: He and I are both divorced and we are both on good terms with our exes. I speak to my ex about once a week on the phone and see him about once a month for lunch.
Should She Contact The Other Woman?
I’ve been in a relationship with someone I love deeply for 5 years. I suspect he’s also been seeing someone else off and on. Of course, he is of the deny till you die mentality, but my intuition is screaming at me.
Is He Too Insecure For a Relationship?
Hi, I seperated and divorced from my ex 2 years ago, we were together 21 years, I am 43. 6 weeks after I moved out I met my current boyfriend/fiance, who I fell head over heels about when we met. The problem is that he wants to be with me 24/7, we work together and are with each other at night.