Not Such A Friend

I have a friend who says she cares about me but anytime i say we should hangout she says okay soon. I just don’t understand why she doesn’t want to hangout with me and yet she visits other people.

What… Continue reading

Love At First Sight?

I have always believed in love at first sight, and when I saw this guy (we’ll call him Harry), when I saw Harry two nights ago I fell in love immediately. My whole being longed to be with his. I’ve never ever felt the way seeing him made me feel… I can’t even describe it. I feel connected to him, and almost like I know him (and I definitely do not). Continue reading

Lies, Lies, And More Lies

I am not an honest person. I have lied to everyone I come in contact with. I don’t know why I lie, maybe its because I don’t want to look like I’m not a well minded person. Continue reading

Bad Chat

2 years ago i met a chat frnd younger to me by 2 years. we were great frnds. evrytime there were misunderstanding we havnt sorted it out and continue to talk. we did romanctic chat but he refuse to accept me as gf. Continue reading

The Risks of Love

Hi, I met a single Asian mom 2 months ago. She has a large friend base and is protective of her son who I have not met. and her friends-family. Fireworks right from the start.

I can only see her when her schedule allows couple times a month. She travels to see friends on weekends and works hard all week partys a couple times during the week. She is 44 I am 46. Continue reading

A Need To Manage Anger

i had a big row with my boyfriend he want to end the relationship i was very upset and said fine but i told him he will never see his son again once i go with that he put his hands round my throat and pulled me on the and started shouting in my face this is the first time he’s done that i love him but i don’t want to stay with him if he’s going to do that again what should i do. Continue reading

Blending Together

I am separated from my same-sex partner of 18.5 years (couldn’t get married for legal reasons).  We have two 10 year old girls and we split custody fairly amicably.

For the last year I have been in a relationship with a family friend the whole family has known for about 3.5 years.  The girls like him very much and he loves them as his own (he has 2 grown children).  He works out of our house so he is here every day and the kids really enjoy being with him. Continue reading

Is It Wrong?

If my husband has cheated would it be wrong for me to see someone, if I have left him and seeking a divorce.

Until you’re legally divorced, you’re legally married. So, is it wrong for a married woman to “see… Continue reading

Was Their Marriage A Lie?

Dear Pat: I am married to a women 28yrs I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. We even had children in there 20s now. I came out about a year ago, we still live together. I am the only one working at the moment and I won’t abandon her, have have a history together. I do love her but it is not the same. I tried my hardest to be str8 and be the great dad and husband it finaly came to a head and I can’t live this lie anymore. Continue reading

How Can He Please Her?

My question is how can I please my girlfriend again after a serious quarrel?

That’s a very vague question with TLI for me to know what that serious quarrel was about or how many times you’ve been having that same… Continue reading

Does She Love Him?

I want 2 know if the i girl  proposed truely loves me bt i don’t know how?

Marriage is serious. It really should last a lifetime although it’s difficult to know which lifetime that is: the lifetime warranty on… Continue reading

Should She Take A Lover?

My husband has mental illness. I am the main breadwinner. I will be leaving after my last child (out of three) has graduated from high school (he is only in 8th grade). I would leave now but I don’t want to disrupt my son’s life. Continue reading

He Hasn’t Called

Hi, I am from India. I fell in love with this guy the moment i saw him. I approached him and he agreed. We have been together for more than 3 months. I saw no problems except that he never called much. It was usually me who called. He spoke about our future together first. Now al of a sudden he asked for a break because he needed to think about where we are headed. Continue reading

Is There A Future For Us?

I fallen in love with a married man, whose wife cheats with internet lovers every day, after 4 years of declaring our undying love, still separate by OCEANS, Tell me is it worth it? Am I wasting my time? He is so sincere when he talks to me, I don’t think he has the guts to leave her as she always says she can kill herself. Is there any future for us? His Christian belief is to be positive. I am the negative side? Continue reading

Ask Queenie

Have a relationship problem you just can’t seem to handle? Want some words of wisdom from someone who has probably lived on this planet much longer than most people you know and who has no problem giving her opinions about anything and everything?

You may not like or agree with what she has to say, but be assured Queenie definitely will have something to say! Despite what Queenie says in response to your question there are no promises or guarantees that her answers will help make your relationship better. Queenie is not a trained professional and her comments are meant only to provide another view such as you might receive from a trusted friend or an older relative and should never be considered as, or take the place of, professional counseling. Continue reading