Sexless Marriage
I’m in a situation where I believe my husband is gay but will probably never admit it. a couple of years ago, i found out that he had been sending out pics of himself on Craigslist men 4 men. I found out through looking through old cameras etc, that he had been doing this for years. Continue reading
Gay-Straight Marriage
My husband is gay. He has a lovers. I am ok with this and he and I are not sexual, but great friends. I need sex with a straight man. He is ok with this, but I am afraid I will want more. Should I try it? Continue reading
But What Else Is He Doing?
My husband look at men /men having sex.
Most men are very sexual creatures and enjoy sex in many ways. If he is looking, I wouldn’t be too concerned. If he is having sex with men then I’d be concerned.… Continue reading
Stay or Go?
What if in the middle of their 10 years of marriage, one of them wants to end up their relationship. Should they wait to finish the said contract?
Generally, “said contract,” if you’re referring to the marriage vows, are “until death do us part.” Is that what you mean by “wait to finish” the marriage? Continue reading
Ten Years With A Married Man
ok i have been with this guy for ten years and he is married. its been ok but since we stayed together a couple of years ago it has been down hill. since then i have been jump on by him so many times. i put him out to go back to his wife cause we just couldn’t stay together he has cheated more then once. i did my thing to just to get back at him but i stop. Continue reading
Not The Right One
iam in contact with a guy from a week, but he is not compatible in terms of educational qualifications & also not doing any job. i live in hostel, introvert person, very few frnds.. i want a guy with whom i can shop, can go for movie, share my feelings.. but i think it is not good for use someone for my profit.. he is asking me about being in relationship? what to do? Continue reading
He’s Ready To Date, She’s Not
I’ve had feelings for this girl for three years, i finally became friends with her about 11 months ago and now we’re really close, i’m in grade 9 right now and she says she’ll only start dating after high school. she goes to a different hig hschool than me but i see her almost everyday at her bus stop. if just stop being her friend, she’ll cry and hate me forever. should i just wait the four years? Continue reading
Is It Too Soon For New Love?
I’m 28 years old and my husband of 2 years (partner of 6 years) died unexpectedly three months ago. Now I find myself in a really confusing emotional state, as I’m starting to have strong feelings for someone new but at the same time am still grieving for my husband.
What complicates things more is that the person I’m falling for is someone I met four months before my husbands death. We hit it off immediately, and ended up spending a lot of time together as friends. He also had a girlfriend of a few years. Continue reading
No Time For Romance
Hi. I met a single Asian mom 2 months ago. She has a large friend base and is protective of her son who I have not met. and her friends- family. Fireworks right from the start.
I can only see her when her schedule allows couple times a month. She travels to see friends on weekends and works hard all week partys a couple times during the week. she is 44 I am 46. She said that she has always had a boyfriend or a husband and now it is just her and her son and she likes it. And that she will slow down some day. But I would just have to deal with it. Continue reading
Is He A Cheater?
It was quite a while ago but i saw a few scratch marks on my bfs back and i cant remember what they look like so please dont ask! has he maybe cheated or possibly just scratched his back.
Also there was another case about seven months before this he went to the park with a friend and had his phone switched off all day because he knew id be annoyed that he went and didnt tell me, as i was pregnant at the time and wouldnt have been able to go on anything. the next day i noticed a bite mark on the upper inside of his thigh (with teethmarks). Continue reading
Don’t See A Problem
Hey Pat, so this is basically the situation. I was dating this girl, and I cheated, yes I cheated. So we broke up and she got a new boyfriend and now she’s cheating on HIM with ME, I want her back, I love her and she loves me. She DOESNT love him. I just want her back honestly, I know i messed up. – Hector Continue reading
You Can’t Lose What You Don’t Have
hello pat.
i have a prolem that i cant solt at all and i really need your help. my relationship is 7 months and i love my man so much. i found it confusing when i walk with him on the malls and he keeps watching females, today he saw this ather lady carrying a bag and he said “i wish i was not in dating so that i can help her”, i was so hurt, i didnt even know how to comment. Continue reading
Friends, Lovers, or Something In Between?
Right, I have this situation that obsesses me, keeping me impatient and some advise actually told me to be patient with it right now.
I’ve had thoughts about the same person for months, since we’ve had some romantic feelings towards each other and renewed love a coupple of times since when we met years ago, getting more and more intense now and looks “just a little” promising. Continue reading
From Straight To Gay?
I am 40 years old and married 12 years back and got 3 lovely kids. Unfortunately i discovered than i have sexual attraction to men, feeling of being bottom. I am living in a country where Homosexuality is stated as crime in the Law and society highly discourages it.
I visited gay chat rooms and have found a foriegner who is also married and had met personally and exchange ideas. I never had any sexual practice with anyone. I am feeling deep sexual attraction to men. How can i go with it? Am in big big dilemaa and appreciate your advise. tnx a lot in advance Continue reading
Friends With Benefits?
There’s a man with whom I work at times- different companies and about 6 hrs away. But, he travels up here every couple of weeks. About a year ago we began to do things totally unwork related when he was in town- a hike, dinner at my house or a restaurant, etc. I wondered for a long time about what was going on between us. Continue reading